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journal2008: September 30 : Coming Home I like calgary. Went for a beautiful
walk last night out in the cold with my mates Julie and Nat, and really
its a great city. I leave Canada in 16 hours. NOt that i am counting!
i get home in 48 hours! not that im counting!! 2008: September 22: I'm In Lurve Its raining today in Fernie.
Typical. Yesterday was about 35 degrees so beautiful. And today we
have a complete day and night off, we had planned picnics, canoeing,
hiking and campfires with marshmallows!! But instead we are spending
time doing nothing. I have bought a bunch of new books, so at least
I can chill with a good read.
2008: September 14: Killer Cougar Attack (Canada Tour) Hey there. Well I thought
I would share a funny little tour story. We finally had a day and night
off yesterday which is always a blessing on any tour! On our Friday
night gig we were privileged to have local Prince George musician, Matt
support us. His music is beautiful, moving and totally blew me away.
The show was small, as there was a huge band playing at the local uni,
but the show was still really enjoyable. Sometimes the smaller crowds
can be even better you tend to explore your music a little more at
these shows. Anyway, after the show, we get talking to Matt about my
obsession with seeing a bear. This is my fifth trip to Canada in two
years and still no sighting of a bear. So, Matt tells us of a spot
half an hour away where we can go hiking and we would definitely see
not just one bear, but several. So me being me gets extremely excited
and we plan out the next day with Matt.
2008:August 17: Chilling Down South Sitting on the verandah at my aunty's house in Balingup. What a magic little town, one of my favourite spots in WA. And her house is amazing. Its such a beautiful morning. Totally relaxed, feeling at peace. There's no internet which means I am not allowed to work for a few days!! And no phone coverage so I am made to not sit here planning ahead! Been listening to some great cds Damien Rice Live, Fiest, Jeff Buckley, Cat Power all perfect for this space. Feel like I haven't listened to music for ages. My CD player in my van is screwed, and well, sometimes the idea of having music on just drives me insane as I feel like I need no noise at all. But right now I am loving it. Its two weeks until I go to Canada again. Its full on. I can't quite get my head around this one. I only really just got home and I suppose I'm not quite ready to leave again. I screwed up my flights which means I have to stay an extra week. So now 3 weeks has turned into 4 weeks, which means more shows. 20 in total this time. In 21 nights we have 18 full band shows. Then the band will leave and I will do a couple solo shows at my favourite music cafes. I just hope my health and voice hold out. That's really always my main concern. MJ has found a great drummer so I am trusting her judgement and we will meet each other literally a couple hours before getting on stage. The risks we take!! Its always so odd to play with a new drummer or bass player you get so used to playing with the same people, that when you hear something else it feels strange for a while. We have a new bass player playing with us at the moment. Gavin Arnold. He is just lovely. So nice to be around good people. The hardest thing about having a band is keeping the band. Keeping everyone happy. Getting the right mix of musicians and personalities. If you're not touring you can get by. But as soon as you hit the road with each other everything changes, and the fact is you want to get along. Or t could be disastrous. I have been very lucky in this area. Generally we have a lot of fun. When people ask me how was my last tour to USA/Canada/Euro my first answer is I had SO much fun. Because I really did. Jess, Almin and I just laughed so much everyday. Every day was a new adventure and we loved it. It was a perfect mix of people. Traveling with people you love and respect is a complete joy. It makes everything g smoothly and the shows just get better and more fun. It makes you feel not so far away from home. You create your own little family and you learn to live with each other well. That only happens if you're with the right people. I have heard some horror stories about band fighting and breaking up on tour. I think about all the touring I have done in the past 4 years and some of the memories I can now laugh at. What I thought was huge back then seems tiny now. No major fights, although I did fly one drummer home! It just wasn't working, and I was so over it that I booked a flight that day and did the rest of the tour without it, and it was the best decision I could of made. I imagine this happens a lot with bands. You take a big risk by getting in a touring van with people for several weeks! Such a small space, for so many long hours! We have our live DVD coming out soon its taking a while to get together, didn't realize it would take so long. Again, if feels too soon! Having just released Love Underground, and now I'm back in the studio listening for mistakes and trying to get the mix right with Shaun it's a pretty intense process, but I love what Shaun has done with the audio. I really trust his judgement and like working together. You just get so over listening to your own songs and your own voice! Well, I am feeling its time to get up and go for a walk in the sunshine. It was freezing last night, so its time to soak in a little of that heat and the sunshine's rays
2008:
July 17: The Global Update 2008:July
2: Two Days til Summerfest
2008:
June 28th or 29th: Very Confused??
So far we are buggered. What a long trip. Jess and I left Perth and then flew for 6.5 hours to NZ. Then a 14 hour stop over we are about to board now to LA. Three more flights 21 more hours til we get to Milwaukee . We ventured out today in our very tired states didn't really see much. A cute town called Mt Eden. Ate some Turkish food and shopped around. Both pretty exhausted really. Feeling excited, but too tired too think really. I think once I wake up in Milwaukee the excitement will really hit. We are staying at an ex-NBA stars pad! Apparently theres lots of Italian marble in the apartment. I am hoping Almin will be at the airport to pick us up midnight . Then the next night we have our first ever USA show at some pub in Milwaukee . Then the adventure begins. We are staying very close to the festival grounds so we are hoping to catch as much music as possible. We get to hang out with a few mates from the Violent Femmes I haven't seen Victor for 18 months we have kept contact via email so its going to be great to hang again and have a few bevies together. Well they are calling us to board now so I must get going. Here we go
2008: March 27: Back in Canada Canada . Here I am back in Canada . Third time now. And I still love it. We drive along and I sit there looking out my window on the wrong side of the road and I really cant help but smile. Touring in snow. In minus temperatures. I like it a lot. Its so weird being used to your own audiences in WA the audiences that come to see you, that know your songs, that dance and sing along. Bigger audiences. Then you com to a new place and you start again, trying to win over a new crowd. Trying to get your music out to anyone who will listen. What a challenging career choice! Hugh's doing a great job on drums (first time ever with us) and of course MJ is playing amazing bass as usual. Another challenge being a trio. Im so used to having Jean-Guy or Lucy or Jess next to me so used to hearing that extra instrument. But as a trio who are forced to play better, to try out new things, its kinda cool. We are definitely doing the budget tour! When touring internationally your budget is non-existent. We are used to going to cute cafes at home for breaky every morning and ordering the works, with GOOD coffee. Here, well, we are eating a lot of cheap yogurt and a lot of subway super specials! But I must say that Canadian hospitality is awesome. The food been great at the venues and you should see my room right now! We all have our own hotel room huge double room, kitchenette, lounge area, 2 tvs, bathroom with bath, fake fire place, 2 phones, the list goes on all to ourselves! And this particular hotel gives you free breaky too so you wake up and go and eat hot waffles with maple syrup, fresh fruits and cream, then mosie on back to bed for a while! Well, to be honest, I have been in bed all day today working (its now 3pm !) You assume I'm being lazy?? Nope, quite the opposite I am working non stop with emails back and forth for the new album, the launch, the 18 players, song lists, tour bookings blah blah. The fun stuff. Ha! Its such a weird life style. I like it, I really do, but sometimes I am so sick of living out of a suitcase. So sick of different beds, and you miss home too and your family and your partner. Sick of driving. The other day we had an eleven hour drive and then a show that night. Our hire car starting screwing up and that held us back as well. By the end of it I was ready to die! But it's all part of the big game the big plan whatever that may be. Back to Canada still no bears, no mooses. Its like a little game they play with you just to get your hope up and all excited they have all over Alberta big signs of very angry nasty looking mooses (they aren't the cute ones in Alberta) so, you see the sign and desperately look around, just to be disappointed once again. I am beginning to think there is no such thing as a moose. I want my money back.
This weekend we are off to Edmonton the city with the worlds biggest mall! We will be joined by my very good mate Julz we have been mates now for 16 years. Its my birthday Tuesday 1 st , but that day will be spent driving for 8 hours and performing at night, so I have decided its my birthday on Saturday. We have the day and the night off, so it should be a pretty cool 28 th birthday. My first birthday away from home. How will the presents find me?? Next week were off to my favourite places Banff and Canmore. Maybe that's where our tour will suddenly turn into a national geographics tour and all the wildlife will start attacking our car and I can get some good youtube footage. Lets cross our fingers!+ Well, I really should get some sleep. I don't seem to sleep at night here. Too much work to do before getting home. Thanks for reading see you soon. x
Europe . Another adventure. This time a lot more enjoyable. Cant really find an explanation why maybe just a lot smoother the second time around. UK seemed a whole lot smoother. And this time no smashing the car and no car fines. So that was handy. Really loved our shows over there Oxford , Debenham, Bath (love love love Bath ), Harrogate , Cambridge . Oh my gosh Cambridge well, lets just say we had a very very big night. I ended up behind the bar and we got half an hour sleep before waking and stumbling to the hire car at 5am or some crazy hour and driving over two hours to the airport. Not a fun morning. Coffee did not fix it. Nor did any type of greasy food. It was just wrong. But, a very fun night was had, and a great show at that! Holland . My first time playing there. And I loved it. Was a beautiful week. Hanging with my old housemate Siz, and playing seven or so shows, hanging in Amsterdam, meeting great people, performing at some wonderful venues with really wonderful audiences, not having to spend to many hours in the car and doing some shopping, eating, sleeping in .really cant complain about Holland. Cant wait to get back there.. The Dutch audience are awesome they are so present and so enthusiastic. I feel right at home there....bring it on.
2007: August 31st : More On Canada Well, another quick journal
page about our tour in Canada. Only four shows to go. I cant believe
I will be home in a week. Its weird, its felt like we have been here
a lot longer than we have. I spose we have managed to see a whole lot
of BC and now we are driving into Alberta. The land of the good steak,
so we hear. MJ is driving, like normal. Its strange, normally in Australia
I am the one who does most the driving and sorting of maps and itinerys,
but this trip MJ has decided to be the boss!! And she loves it. And
it suits me fine
most the time coz I get to sit back and take in the
scenery, some of the best scenery I have ever seen in my life. Canada
is amazing, it really is. Mountains, and rivers, lakes, woods, forests,
ocean, prairies. All really quite stunning.
hey hey
2007: AUGUST 22nd - Review on Toby at Cumberland Music Festival (Canada) review on toby - canada Jules S. Xavier
2007: JUNE 12th: BALLS AND BUMCRACK TOUR QLD/NSW why balls and bumcrack - really can't answer that. i think we just got so used to seeing julz' bumcrack that it just stuck and unfortunately with all of us being so mature - it become to butt of every joke. what an awesome tour. i can say that in all honesty. i mean, there were a couple dud gigs in there, but generally the gigs were great - playing with almin and michael - and one night with joel - really loved our time on the east coast julz - well shes a winner all around. the best tour manager you could ask for (other then when shes a bossy shit!) - waking you up with hot cups of teas, making your bed all snuggly at night, driving around her beloved van (harry by day, hazard by night), putting up with us singing harmonies over and over again to music she apparantly once used to like! giving us her portion of the drinks, and of course getting her crack out on demand. love you julz. it was quite the touring party - al, mik, julz, kera, kat and our support band nightillion - krissy, marz and luka. great band - very jazzy cool. very cool to hang with after a gig. they forced us to drink. and it was fun. also we can't miss out kath and sach and thomas who does the best actions to goodbye baby. nasty - but funny :) we arrived brissy wednesday and performed that lunch - at the queen's mall. i really enjoyed it this time (last time here i was so hungover i couldn't stand up!) really great crowd - good start to the tour. that night we had the pleasure of seeing nightillion perform at barsoma. very enjoyable. then up we went. felt good to be performing a couple new songs with the boys "so tired" and "favourite day". always a good feeling to try something new next day we had off. shopped a little. drank lotsa coffee. went to a wonderful restaurant and caught the end of mick harts show. not a bad day at all friday we played in the freezing cold mall in the valley. and i mean freezing. funnily enough mike woke up with a flu - which is strange coz he was wearing all of a bonds tshirt. hmmm, clever! despite the cold it was a fun gig. al got a dollar seventy-five thrown at his head - that was a compliment alright! julz got her head patted. and we had crazy men running past several times in tights with socks as balls. good look. next day we set off to malaney - the lovely upfront club. i had really enjoyed our last show there, and it was great to see some familiar faces back again. again we very much enjoyed nightillions set, then on we went. i loved this show - the audience were a very appreciative crowd - they listened, the danced, they enjoyed. so that all i can ask for at a show. i had fun. we felt like teenagers sneaking vodka into our drinks. but it was worth it.off to the pub with the nightillion gang, where i decided not to be a nanna on tour anymore. yes - i am no longer nanna toby, and i am proud! we all felt a lil seedy the next day - and luckily the next gig was kinda empty. so empty infact that i got on the drums and al on guitar and julz slept in the van. yep - that good! monday - byron. yipeee! i love byron. we had four nights in byron. two nights off - to chill, go to the movies, watch sunsets, eat amazing food (way too much), get tattoos, massages, have jams on the beach, go to the lighthouse, nearly get weird piercings, and of course play at the rails. we had the absolute pleasure of having mr joel plymin join us - which of course was awesome. we also had the pleasure of watching his shit hot band - frankie wants out. nine piece swing. so so cool. i really enjoy the byron shows - again some familiar faces and a supportive crowd. oh, and the best salad i have ever eaten in my entire life. julz will back me on this one. i got my first (and last) tat. it hurt. but i felt tough. and i managed to not cry. since i am now not nanna toby, i had to not cry. that would be just wrong. so only a tear or two. thats all. really. kinda. poor kera got sick. bites and puffiness and the poor thing ended in hospital. so that was the huge bummer of the tour. somehow she managed to still be a party girl and make us laugh and be as gorgeous as ever. love to you miss kera. so, it was a week of playing music and watching other play music. went to the beach hotel and saw dejagroove play. and we danced. like we've never danced before. so good infact that almin and i were asked if we were dancing partners proffessionly. i think maybe, just maybe the person asking was blind. or intoxicated. or both. but we thought we were amazing. and we rocked our piece of the dance floor. the band were brilliant - so full of energy - really enjoyed it. our tongue and groove gig was a really fun gig. ofa behind the bar was more then generous with filling me up on jagers. thanks ofa. nightillion did their best set - very fun and energetic and smooth. our set was great fun- cool crowd, up and dancing and a wicked group of girls who knew my lyrics better then i did. turned into a crazy night filled with shanatagans. ..but, what goes on tour stays on tour. yamba was a stand out - what a beautiful place. awesome pub overlooking the ocean. sooo yum. good sound. good people. good fun. mike was on fire with his new hat. a very fun night of music and silliness. all in all a great tour. with a bit of holiday time in there - a good touring group - uncle albert, cussin dubby, aunty crackerjack, little micky-dee, mutha kat, mutha mary and cousin kera-billie. oh, and who can forget harry - the love of julz' life. big thanks to the boys, to julz and to the nightillion crew. love your work. x www.youtube.com/tobybeard
I woke this morning to MJ saying "quick get up, look out the window". It was snowing. Real snow. Real, pretty, white snow. I have never seen actual snow falling before so I did a happy dance on the balcony. And then realized after a couple of minutes I was freezing, and I looked like a dickhead in my pyjamas getting wet doing the happy dance. 4 degrees. We got all rugged up and walked into town. Singing 'frosty the snowman', 'walking in a winter wonderland' and 'let it snow let it snow'. Then I quickly realized I again was losing my voice and should really shut up and get back indoors. Anyway, the mountains look even more incredible now covered in snow. It looks like a postcard, the mountain, the woods, covered in white fresh snow. I love Switzerland !! Let it snow let it snow let it snow Tobes xx
It's midnight , and we just did our second show at Metros. Wow, playing to a bar filled with about 300 very loud, very drunk backpackers mainly American, mainly football players well that's kinda "special". It actually somehow went pretty well, especially since I have been super sick for here days now. I spent today in bed literally all day. Watching Sex in the City and House and trying to sleep. I had one quick break to check my bank account details I have been charged over a grand for car issues. Quite possibly we got way more speeding fines then we ever realized. I hate the England road system!! So, being this sick, I am surprised that any voice came out at all. Lets just say it was lucky I learned a Johnny Cash song a couple days ago I think we could of played that all night and they would have been stoked. I haven't seen so much bumping and grinding in a very long time. Is this what I used to do when I worked at Balmers??? Well we've spent our time here so far hiking, bike riding, driving the scooter up mountains, relaxing, being sick, and yesterday we went and did an amazing rope course. It's a new adventure course over here, so we thought we'd give it a shot. MJ being a climber was stoked, me, on the other hand was shitting myself as I am no so good with heights. You are up in these SUPER HIGH trees over 60 feet high, and the only thing that is saving you from falling is a couple of tiny metal clamps. Which you are responsible for yourself. So if you stuff it up, you fall. Pretty scary if you ask me. You go on all these hanging logs, flying foxes, thin ropes, repels etc. The flying foxes were bloody scary. My first one was insane. I was so scared, then finally I get the balls, and off I go. I didn't make it the whole way so there I am hanging off this rope 60 feet high screaming, and MJ is on the other side filming me and laughing. Apparently its really funny to be hanging there waiting to fall and die on the rocks below. Not funny. But once you start there's no turning back, and it only got worse. After a while I was so mad that I even tried to overcome my fear of heights. I mean, what a stupid thing to do climb huge ladders, and find yourself in the tree tops, pretty much crying like a baby, desperately wanting to be back on the ground, telling yourself "you can do it, you have to do it,you are a brave warrior princess!"I officially at that moment became a tree hugger. I have skydived, paraglided and hang glided, but for me this was much scarier. But I got through it and felt pretty damn good after. I think I will stick to staying on the ground from now on. Well time for this nanna to go to sleep. Nitey nite. Sweet dreams. Tobes x
2007: May 23rd : CAR ISSUES Well what a great week. We had our final week in the UK was fabulous. Bath was a stand out. But our gig in Cambridge was probably my favourite - great country pub bout 100 or more in the audience and they were payers which always means you will have a responsive, attentive crowd and these guys were awesome. We had to do a three encores and we ended on Blue, which we never do as a duo but the entire crowd started clapping along and stomping and it was great fun having that involvement. We sold out of CDs which was great, but a bugger as we would've sold another 20 or so albums that night. If you are in Cambridge check out the Elm Tree - very very cute So back to Oxford for a super fun gig. The crowd were up and dancing the entire set and people had come back from our gig there three weeks before and they knew the words †a pretty cool feeling! MJ was going off this particular night, pulling out the most incredible bass solos you can imagine and the crowd loved her! We were also joined by a local violinist who played before us. She was pretty awesome and a lot of fun to be on stage with, so hopefully when we are back in the UK she will join us for some more shows. After our show on Sat in Norwich we drove back to London arriving at 3am, so tired. We just about had our 2 nd crazy accident. The first was my fault †I am driver and MJ is in charge of directions ...works way better this way. So, I'm happily driving along, dancing along and singing along to my new Patsy Cline CD and suddenly MJ leans over and grabs the wheel and swings it toward her. I was on the wrong side of the road (yes I know England is the same as Australia and I really don't have any explanation, maybe I was too involved in Patsy at the time) and we just missed an oncoming van coming at us at around 100kms per hour! Really quite scary. Well the second accident was slightly more scary. I fell asleep at the wheel, which I have never done with all the driving I have experienced. I don't know who woke first but we were about to hit the side railing again at about 120 kms per hour. And MJ saved the day once again. Talk about a heart attack - bloody scary stuff. Oh, and did I mention how I smashed the hire car!!! Yep, I have never smashed a car in my life (actually I lie, I did back into a car once) So we are driving along and I notice how incredible the sunset is I get all excited and pull over and the as I am backing up to get the best position we hear a smash and bang, I hit a huge rock and it scrapes the hell out of our very brand new car. So it cost like a minimum of 500 aussie for doing this. Add this to our two parking fines worth over $400 and our speeding fines and the bank situation is not looking so good. Big ouch. So †us, being so 'clever' drive to a Ford company and purchase some Apple Green paint †yes apple green. And we attempt to paint over the many scratches ...hmm not pretty at all. If we get a blind person checking for smashes, then we will be just fine. Fingers crossed. Our third near accident (well now our fourth really) was on the way to the airport at 4am. Again , the wrong side of the road this time I blame MJ - she told me to do it. Simple as that really. So I simply believed her and off I went and as I get to the corner a car whizzes around it and misses us by a metre or two. Fun I tell you! Really fun. Especially after only three hours sleep. Anyhoo, after nearly missing our plane here we are in my all time favourite place - Interlaken, Switzerland. We had our first show last nite. Huge crowd, pretty cool nite all round. Today MJ and I went for a mountain hike, but didn't quite make it to the top. But he, we tried. Then we went for a scooter ride , much easier way to get to great hights. Loved it. Love being back here. It is my heaven. The most beautiful place - a town in between two amazing lakes, surrounded by the amazing Swiss alps. We were given last night a ticket to the top of Europe by the owner of Balmers. Very nice prezzie, so we will hit the Jaungfrau in the next few days. We also want to go water rafting, canyoning and rope climbing. Should be a great couple of weeks. Bring it on! Tobes x
2007: May 16th - TOO FAT TO PLAY BRITTNEY So the second part of the tour. Right now MJ is driving and we are heading back to Brighton. We will stop at Fiona's houseboat for a well needed cup of tea and then head to our gig in Hastings. Friday night saw us at the Cherry Tree Inn, Debenshire. Just near Ipswich. Pretty cool country typa pub. We got there and were told there was no PA. Luckily local lad Smiley came and saved the day by taking us to James house. Yep James is a winner and leant us his PA...thanks James, you're a star! Back to the venue and after some nice home made pasta we start the show. Well, it was definately 'interesting'. 400 people in town headed to a footy three coarse dinner and dance, so we weren't left with that many people. We did however get a big bunch of young guys ...very rowdy young guys who obviously are into their top 40 shit and not original roots live music. So, as were trying to play one lovely guy calls out "why don't you play us some Brittney", he follows the request with yelling out "actually, no, you're way too fat for that". Oh I really liked that guy...so sweet, so caring, I'm surprised I didn't feel the urge to go home with him. Then five minutes later I get the next lovely comment. This time another guy who calls out "My first dog's name was Toby". I don't think you want to know my response to this guy. The owner Zoe ends up coming up and politely asking them to shut up or leave. So they left. Which was awesome, coz then we had a lovely crowd who wanted to hear the music. So the last set was great, a good bunch of people enjoying and having a dance. The next day was lovely, we headed into this beautiful little town, I forget the name, but the streets were gorgeous and crazy to drive on, all big enough for one car only, in the most stunning countryside. Anyway we spent the day looking at the little markets and stalls and this amazing castle. How cool is it that you can be driving along and you look over and there stands a medieval castle. And again we seemed to spend the most time in the gourmet cheese shops. We found James in there and again he was a winner and gave us some yummy brie for free ...thanks again!! Saturday night back in Norwich (this time a lot more fun as local guitarist Ross joined us for the two sets †nice work!), then Sunday Harrogate. What a cool town. I loved this place. And we loved the venue too. The blues bar/cafe. Totally our type of crowd and set up, really enjoyed the gig. This gorgeous young boy came and sat on the stage and after a while hands over this piece of paper saying "Hi Toby, my name is Hamish, I'm nine." A while later he hands over another paper, this type this drawing of a guitar on fire, he named is Fireuitar, It was a very sweet moment -he even became our personal roadie as well for the day - even sweeter. We had a few interesting things happen on the road too. While MJ had to stop on the side of the road †I stupidly go walking through a bush with no shoes on and my pants rolled up and then suddenly I have this crazy itching and stinging sensation over my legs and feet and these lumps start coming up!! Some sort of poison plant. It was the last thing I needed while we were lost and late once again! Luckily the pain only lasted for under an hour. Another lesson learned. Next stop was my favourite ...Bath. What a place. Filled with so many amazing heritage building and churches and cute cafes. And of course the Roman Baths . I went in and explored for just over an hour †really quite amazing. And the gig was great, the Porter. Love this place. Really intimate setting, cool little round tables and round chairs, lovely people, fosters beer!! What more could you want. The manager said it was the happiest audience he'd ever seen at the Porter, so I was pretty stoked to hear that comment! We got to have a day off in Bath which was beautiful and then here we are ready for another Hastings gig †could be interesting, lets hope we don't get lost, and have more people there than last time!! Ciao for now. Tobes x
2207: MAY 10th - GETTING LOST IN THE UK Well, it's been two weeks since we arrived, and it feels like forever ago. MJ and I met up at Heathrow airport after a pretty shitty long flight (MJ only took six or eight hours, lucky girl!). We jumped in our hire car, a lovely manual olive green ford, pretty much brand new. Experienced my first bad coffee in a plastic cup ...the machine didn't give change either. Off we headed to Oxford . Our first destination. The trip went really well considering I haven't driven before in the UK †so I thought this was a sign of how sweet and easy and non-stressful our driving would be. I have never been more wrong in my life!! I think we should have got a sponsorship from panadol, or red bull, or Nescafe, or, well who knows. Our bed and breakfast on the first night was really a shithole.It smelt like dead nannas, and once in the shower you couldn't seem to get out, mainly because the sink was in the way and you had to very tightly suck in your tummy, rub up against the wall, and hold tight to squeeze past. Lesson number one, the English B&bs are rather different from our B&Bs. Oh oh, am I complaining already ...yupget ready for it!! Well our first gig was on the Friday night at the X in Oxford . It went down really well, we were placed in between two very heavy rock-punk chick typa bands. Well suited hey!! HA! I was again a little stressed, but in the end it was all good, and we managed to sell a lot of cds which is great, and we were invited back to play a couple weeks later which is a bonus. Thanks AL , lovely lovely lady who runs the place. We also go to catch up with my aunty, uncle, granny and couz in Oxford . They were in London a few days and came and visited. Pretty much we had six people in the car, all our luggage and instruments, and we drove around what seemed to be all day looking for parking. Lesson number two, there is NO parking in England . None whatsoever! We also kept driving alongside police cars, and then even tried to find illegal parking at a police station. Poor old Gran couldn't move in the back, sitting on someone's lap with a bass and a guitar on her lap. Always treat your elderly with respect and kindness, oops. So on to our next gig. Won't mention any names or places here. We drove over four hours to this gig. We had got lost. It should've taken us maybe two hours. But the road systems are crazy. I mean, WA touring is hmmmm should we go north to Broome, or south to Margs. Hard really. Well you get to UK and there's M25, A1525 then more Ms, more As (thousands it seems!) and meanwhile you are driving over 130 kms per hour trying to keep up and there's no speeding signs, yet there are warning signs for speed cameras EVERYWHERE. We have been honked many a time in the past two weeks. Lesson three. . .we hate the roads in the UK . So…. Moving on with the story. We get to our next venue. And the guys have no clue who we are they have never heard of us ... the past owner had booked us (he had told us all was cool with the new owners), but apparently not. So, we hunted down the past owner in another pub, to say he looked slightly frightened when he saw me, is an understatement. But, we were told no gig, no accom, no nothing..¦.so back on the road for another 4 hours. This time heading to Brighton . We arrived after midnight, totally exhausted. My very good mate Fiona lives in a houseboat. Hmm…sounds interesting?? Well it is. I will post some photos for you to see. It's crazy. And a little smelly. Yep, one of those toilets you can't flush you put your bog roll in an itty bitty bin next to you †so yes you get to breathe in other peoples shit while you are trying to relax on the loo. Lovely! But, the houseboat is cool in many ways lots of artwork, crazy nik-naks and tiny rooms. Plus I got to hang with Fi and I miss her so sooo much, so it was awesome to see her. The low ceilings proved quite difficult for me however, and I nearly knocked myself out several times during our three nights there!! Brighton - I love Brighton . Like an even better version of freo. Great pubs, cafes, shops, people, awesome vibe. So we looked forward to our one Brighton gig at the Joogleberry Playhouse †a beautiful theatre. The gig was really awesome. Great crowd, really responsive which was great. Would play there again anyday. Thanks beautiful Fiona for spoiling us and making me laugh! Tuesday we headed into London , for our one off London show. We arrived feeling pretty smelly as we hadn't showered for a few days due to the off smelling toilet. It kinda felt dirtier showering then not showering, if that's possible. And no amount of lavender spray can get rid of that. Or nag champa incense. So we arrive to meet my sister's best mate Jade in Mayfair . Jade greets us with a huge smile and informs us she has a 'little treat' for us!! Well, the little treat was a HUGE treat, the top suite in a hotel room for two nights! With all free alcohol and food! It was lush. The most perfect treat I've ever had! Thank you Jade- our complete hero! We love you! The London gig was pretty spesh. Well, it was spesh to see lots of my mates who I hadn't seen for ages. So the gig was very short and sweet but the night was great. Thanks to my mates who rocked up - thank god for you guys -you rocked that tiny pub! Staying in London was sweet due the fact Jade spoiled us rotten. She took us to one of the top five restaurants in London called "Sketch" and wow it was just incredible. Never seen anything like it. It was a few days filled with luxury and great food! Next stop…Leighton Buzzard. We got lost again. Funny that. MJ was on directions may I add. Yep, not my fault. Completely hers. Of course. Nothing is ever my fault right!? Cool pub in Leighton. Great crowd. Great curry. Very country pub like. But we liked it a lot. We managed to get very lost the next day too. See any pattern here? Off to Norwich . A very cool venue. The gig was pretty packed out- several drunkens, but some cool people too †didn't get much sleep however since Donavon Frankenreiter CD was playing downstairs loudly from 3-7am. To think the day before that I had actually enjoyed Donavon. Shame really. We also had the pleasure during our sleepless night to hear someone having sex right next to us †and not just any typa sex the sex where either she was really enjoying herself, or she just liked to fake it so loudly that all of Norwich could here. Time to get outta there we thought. So we were in the car by 7am heading to Manchester to perform at the "Girls Got Blues" Fest. The countryside was just stunning during the drive up there. The gig was cool. Got to see some great artists perform - my favourite being GeekGirl - check them out - very cool. Since then we have been hanging in London again with my mate Jas (been mates for 20 years) and her fiancé Louis. Having fun. Did a gig last night near Hastings †well, it was our second smallest gig on record †total people at one point in the room was 11 including us! But it turned out really quite fun †luckily the people there were a lot of fun. Back in London now just chilling until tomorrows gig. Getting spoiled once again by Jas and Louis. Bring on the Spanish tapas. Well, I know that by the end of this tour, I will have gained so much knowledge on overseas touring. We are definitely having fun, but it's a lot of hard work. Word of warning don't ever ask a touring musician "how's your holiday going". This is not a holiday at all. It's a huge learning experience, new venues, new audiences, new road systems, new rules, and at the same time I think we are managing to keep our sense of humour with the whole thing. I take my hat off to any musician who is out there doing this †the likes of Carus †well done! Anyhoo we have another six or seven gigs here, then four in Switz and maybe a few in Holland . Bring it on!! And thanks to any crew who have come and watched our shows and also to the people who have bought an album! We love you!
2007:April 18th - Life and stuff Bit of a time for writing. Maybe? Not sure what about. Feeling pretty tired. I am so over organising this UK tour. Its my first time, and its yep its been bloody difficult putting together so many shows. I have just paid for car hire, some accom, let all my mates know we will be doing some couch surfing while we are there (thanks guys!) and well, just trying to work out how to get from one destination to another. MJ is meeting me there. Haven't performed together for six months should be good. Then Miss Lucy Fisher will join us for a few shows. Luce has been over in South America so we haven't seen each other for nearly six months. Will be great to see Luce and hear all her stories. I feel like this year is whizzing by. I counted and in the first four months of this year there has been 58 shows. Quite a lot really. And I look at my plan for the next six months and its crazy UK , Switzerland , south west WA tour, QLD/NSW tour, North/West WA tour, Cross Canada tour, then a full WA state tour. Plus a new album and a Red Rooster single. All in six months! I have moved home. Back with my fam , and actually its going quite well. I get to cook in a nice clean kitchen (not so clean after I have been in there), be with my fam who crack me up most the time, do the Home and Away thing, and most important spend time with my very beautiful sister. So its all worth it for me. Everything seems to be happening around me right now, mates getting married and other pregnant, people travelling, friends dealing with family illnesses. Its all happening and its all kind of overwhelming. And still, I cant seem to write. Probably because I am stuck behind this computer organising tours and car hire and trying to get my name out there. If you know of any good managers please send them to me! Looking back at my last journal entries I have missed some major things!! Like CANADA !! Yep I went to Canada for a month last September. Pretty awesome. Did about ten shows with MJ in Winnipeg funny little town, but had a ball. I especially like Calgary and while staying in Calgary with one of my best mates Julz well we had a few adventures. We did Banff and Canmore (stayed in a beautiful motel, spa bath, late nite bbq, mountains amazing) could you get anymore beautiful!??!? Also did Lake Louise which is honestly one of the most beautiful sites I've ever seen. We went on canoe for an hour or so. The water was so incredibly cold, just so yummy.
And we did a road trip across the border of America . Three towns in a few hours Very memorable. It involved the mission to find huckleberry pie. It included the greatest love of all from Whitney Housten. (on repeat) It involved twangy accents. and crazy dogs. and towns called Shelby , Kevin and Sunburst. It was funny. We had set off with our country hats to America in our hire car, Whitney blasting from the speakers. Met some strange Americans. Went to three very weird, very backwards, very redneck towns. First stop - (we were in Montanna by the way) Sunburst. Nothing sunny bout this town. We find the one shop - it has a big sign saying fresh hot donuts and an ATM inside. So i ask the girl kindly for some donuts. She stares at me blankly. So I ask again. maybe she has a hearing problem?? I ask again. Then again, this time in my best american twangy accent. Finally she says back to me without smiling, total monotone the boss ain't cook any today. We ask to use the ATM three times and again she looks blankly and says Ain't working today . Very special girl wander what she does for entertainment??
Next stop. A town called Kevin. Yep. A pub that had closed down, some houses and cars that belonged in a time wap. Not a person to be seen. A playground and the Kevin city hall. And flags. Everywhere they have that blue red and white flapping around in your face. Kevin is the perfect town for a murder. This Wolf Creek . Next stop. Shelby . We were on a mission for huckleberry pie.We had no luck. Instead we settled for a few budweisers in a tiny pub filled with pokies, old popcorn machines, pizza and loud Americans all wearing football jersies. A 65 year old man tried feeling me up. That was nice. He was slightly pissed, and began telling me about his battery operated guitar which was missing a few strings and missing a battery. He even told me how you can actually record yourself these days on a cassette. have you heard of a cassette Miss Toby??' (he was serious) I replied why, no sir, I don't think I have .so John told me all about cassette tapes and how you can record your voice and listen back to it. He then was kind enough to try and kiss me while singing one of his own originals called it hurt so bad And trust me, it hurt so bad just listening. And that was that. Back to Canada . I drove. Wrong side of road. 3 hours. 140kms. Nice ey?? It was such a fun day. So many funny moments and lots of laughs and silliness. Yvonne-Rae, Julie-Mae and Toby-Fae had a toot hootin day in America . Well yeh,. That was Canada . Came back, with my new bass player MJ ready to hit WA. MJ had done the east coast a few times with her old band Nine Mile. They were supporting the likes of Ben Harper, Pete Murray and Xavier. So she thought she knew what touring was like in Australia . (you know, hotel rooms, huge concerts, great food, only half hour sets, good pay) Well, she thought she knew until we took her to our first stop MARVEL LOCH? Where the hell is that I bet you are aksing. On the way to Southern Cross. And yep its another one of those Kevin, Shelby typa towns. A little scary. We were not allowed the steak. Costs too much don't wanna waste that good cow on tourists like us! But the gig was fun. The crowd were pissed. And after an hour or so they had decided we weren't the smelly hippies they had decided we were when we had arrived. Bloody hippy music shit! Well, we began to teach MJ what WA touring is like. Endless hours on the road, early mornings, bad road house food, biltong, unpacking your own huge PA system, doing tour own sound, playing for three hours, selling your own merch, packing up your PA system, getting to bed late, and waking up a few hours later to do it all again. Driving through 40 degree heat with an non-airconditioned van not much foot room, a cd player that jumps every four metres and red dirt. Easy! But the tour was great Elliot, Lucy, MJ and I. Sold huge amount of merch, played some new places Port Hedland, Marvel Loch, Murrin Murrin Mine. Was all pretty cool We were late to our Pannowonicka Gig. We get out the car there at about 8.15pm . Thiking we were on stage at 8.30pm . The bar manager bastard (yes that's his name) comes out to greet' us. I tell the gang to start unpacking while I deal with getting told off. And boy, did I get told. I got told we had 15 minutes to set up the sound and be on stage or we don't get paid. And did we do it- sure did! And did it go off sure did! Our gig turned out heaps of fun and Bastard and I were buddies once again. These are the memories that make our touring experience interesting and memorable. You can make it big in the industry in two different ways you tour and tour and don't stop touring for years until the venues become sold out and you become a household name. This is independent. Or, a big label puts shitloads of money into you and you get a great album, a few top quality video clips and you become a house hold name. Now of course we may want the second option but I would never give up the memories we have created in the past five years. I remember our first tour. The excitement of packing. Of hitting the road. New audiences and venues. And you get some of that excitement every time you hit the road. You learn so much too. Lucy and I, for example, learned that you cant drink half a bottle of Sambuka and jugs of Illusions and keep standing. We learned you can fall off the speaker you're standing on. And its embarrassing! You learned that you cant be stoned when your driving because you believe you are in a video games where all the kangaroos are your enemy and you must kill them. We learned that some people are harder to travel with some don't shower, some don't like wearing clothes, some like lavender way too much, some are escaping the law, some have several personalities, some like to shag in your bed, some like to cry a lot. But we also learned more about our culture, our people, and their way of living. We learned about our land and how huge it is, how our roads are endless. We leaned how to look after my van (well, not really) We have had one van explode on us years back which burnt Lucys arm we missed a gig because of it. Elliot and I, years later learned how to get lost in the desert (again think Wolf Creek ) at midnight with all of the lights flashing on the car. We decorated the van again with hot coolent from the over heated radiator. We then did this again recently in Exmouth Joel was being the brave one and BANG he was covered. So actually we haven't learned anything here other than its time I buy a new van. I learned about friendships. I have the most amazing friends within this band and I count myself very lucky. My main boys Almin, Mike, Elliot and Jean. Couldn't ask for better mates. And all the wonderful people I play with Jess, Lucy, Joel, MJ etc. Such beautiful people. We have had our times ( no names mentioned) where I have screamed across a lonely car park in Derby screaming you're walking home (so, maybe I should have thought about that one first) or band members telling other band members they need mental help!! Yep it all happens on the road. But you just breathe it all in and keep driving We have done so many miles together and we keep getting in that van so something must be going right! Wow, I am babbling on here maybe I will stop for a while. All this car talk makes me stress about driving in the UK ! God help me! Thanks for listening. And thanks for all the support. It means the world Tobes x top
2007: February 8th -On stage with the Violent Femmes hey there lovely people i am writing from Brissy. We arrived wed morn after no sleep and the red eye flight out of Perth - to say we were buggered is an understatement. Julz our trusty road manager picked us up and later that day headed to Byron Bay. My first time there, my first gig there. The Rails Hotel. Pretty cool place. We set up our 'special' pa system (thanks hamish) and the gig begins. Duo with MJ and I. So half way through this rowdy bunch of American guys start a bit of banter - we share a few jokes and they do some backing vocals for my version of Piece of My Heart. During the break we are informed they are non other than the VIOLENT FEMMES. Lead singer wasnt there, so i didnt really recongnise them. After sitting with them and sharing a few shots of jeiger they ask if they would be able to joinMJ and Ion stage - the drummer Victor (who is amazing) and Jeff on mando - who us also amazing. So we start our brand new four piece band - we decided we were called 'a leaf hit me'....hmm dont know how that came about. so we played an hour set - heaps of fun. The crowd suddenly got bigger, and they loved it. So the night turned into a couple hours of craziness. We hung with the guys and their tour managers and they ran the bar dry- Ihave never seen that much jeigermesiter in one night being consumed. Was such a fun night..... pitty i felt so messy in the morning. We had an early wake up call from Julz as we had a lunch time show back in Brissy and one that night. Did I mention that during Red Rooster, I hit one of those heavy duty notes, stomped my foot down (no shoes of course) and slammed down into a huge piece of glass. It went straight through the skin, nice and deep and I started instantly bleeding... a lot. Without missing a beat or a note, Julz comes over and rips out the glass (foot in air, still playing!!) and teh song went on. Painful to say the least. I think only half the glass is out, and I am rather bruised. Thank god for the Jeiger. It defintaley eased the pain! soTthe good new was the Femmes invited us to go to their concert,
and to play on stage with them at the Tivoli in Brissy. Hmmm... didnt
have to think that hard about that answer! we did a bit of time swapping
with out gig, played our set with kasper on percussion at the tongue
and groove (very coolplace) and off we went to the femmes. we arrived
backstage and then got told "youre on, NOW". Out we went first song!!
MJ on the slide whistle, me on percussion. the army song. Crowd was
1000 plus. And what a beautiful theatre.
great guys to be on stage with - lots of energy. Then we played for
"black girls" - mj on bass, me again on tambo. Their box player was
incredible. and Victor was going off. All of them were.
Then came my favourite femmes song - gone daddy gone. And I did backing vocals!! So stoked. Love that song so much. Was so much fun. We had some chats and we are hoping to head over to the states maybe this year..so victor and jeff are wanting to put together a show with mj and i and tour it in America - so who knows. Either way we had a ball. met some great guys - with no egos attached who just have fun doing what they are doing - and its been 26 years of touring for them. Cant imagine that at all. Crazy really, and admirable. We are off again for another show tonite. So far its been a great
tour.
big thanks to joe b for the invite!!
hope everyone is smiling...i certainly am.
tobes
2006:
August 14th - back from tour The tour is over. It was smooth. And fun. And the gigs were really quite awesome. Well, some of them. Normally on tour I am nanna' . The boys know this. Every night after a gig, little nanna goes to her room by herself and rests her little throat. Boring hey. But its just the way I do it. Well, did it. This tour we all decided it was best to drink. And we did it well I may add. Always so much more fun to sit in a van for hours at a time with a hangover right? You would think we would learn after a few days, but you just don't. It was a chirpy little tour really lots of laughs and lots of beautiful places and people. We had a guy from Melbourne come on tour with us Joel. The story goes, when I was in Melbourne doing this festival, after many beers I heard this sax player playing with the Rob Sawyer band, I watched him for probably less than thirty seconds and decided he was great and went and asked him if I could fly him over for the tour. And he said yeh sure whatever'. And then I sobered up. And took the risk, and flew him over, and he is awesome! Great musician, great entertainer and a great guy to be around. We also took along Maera as our support act. Which was a wonderful choice. It meant we were blessed with her voice and songs every night, and then she would join us on stage for a few songs which is always fun. We all travelled really well together on this tour, which definitely helps! Favourite spots? Coral Bay and Monkey Mia of course. The Karratha festival was pretty huge. We played to a crowd of over three thousand which was cool. But just before the gig I somehow managed to smash the boot of my van on my head, leaving me with a huge lump, and a massive headache. Somehow in Mad Man, I totall lost the plot, forgot the chords, the words, the guitar solo I went all dizzy and we caught it on film pretty embarrassing to say the least! Pannawonica was hilarious! What a funny town! Good food but there's a plus! Dongara was fun as usual got the crew going on that tiny dance floor. Oh, and we spent a day at the farm/dam with our beautiful Gerro friends again which was just so nice and relaxing. We have the best group of friends up there we love you guys!! We got to swim in Coral Bay . So yummy there. Best view ever from our room. What a great spot. We played there on the Wednesday and the gig went so well that we went back on the Monday and played again you couldn't get us off the stage that night. We finished the tour on a huge night in Coral Bay . I had no voice, yet we managed to play four hours non stop of music thanks Maera! Then headed to the beach with many wines and beers and started fire twirling. Beer and fire not so good together. We were meant to wake up nice and early but kinda ended up leaving later than we expected with very sore heads. Fifteen hours later we were home once again. It was also awesome to have Pippa, Stace and Sis come visit! Three of my favourite people ever! Heaps of fun all round. Thanks again to everyone who made this tour so much fun, and such a success we sold more cds than we ever imagined so I hope you are all enjoying them! I am off to Canada in two weeks for a few gigs over there. My first time and I cant wait! See you all soon Tobes x 2006: June 28th - wintertime blues. Bring back the summer time. I can only handle the winter when I am in bed with many dunas, or when its raining and I am warm inside, or even better when I'm up north and I'm sunbaking! That's when winter is okay with me. Soon . we will be back up the west coast, soaking in the sun and the ocean. I'm really looking forward to the next state tour. I have taken a risk and invited a guy called Joel over from Melbourne to play with us on the tour. I heard him playing sax after our set was over at the Warm Up For Winter Fest in Melbourne . And his stage presence really grabbed me, so me being me, grabbed the chance to play with someone new. That's what I do love about our band, so many wonderful dedicated soloists to perform with, all whom I love and admire in so many ways. Haven't posted a journal page for ages. Sorry about that. Lots going on. I spose since the beginning of the year I have been so busy and haven't really put aside any time to write down my thoughts. So here they are. Well, I wanted to say a massive thank you for the 500 plus people who came along to the launch on May 20. What a night. So much of a build up, stress and anxiety, and in the end it all ran so smoothly. We didn't even manage to have a full rehearsal, which is kinda crazy when you are about to perform with 14 people on one stage! Lucky for me my musos all learnt their parts and stepped up for the night. I was sooo impressed! I remember when I first stood up the stage and looked out to the crowd and wow! I wasn't expecting that many faces staring back at me, all so supportive and all smiling and having fun and enjoying themselves. So to be honest I think my only nervous bit was the first line of the first song, and then I stood back and thought Yes, this is awesome. This is what I have worked so hard for, time to have fun!! And that's exactly what we all did. It was one huge party for all. The musos not only looked hot but played brilliantly. My highlights of the night? I loved the strings verses brass bit down with the audience. Heaps of fun. Also loved the impromtu performance of Nina Simone's Sea-Line Woman'. Permission was a winner with all the soloists going hard at it. But my three favourite songs on the night were definitely Dream of Me, Breathe and Blue. Dream Of Me I decided to put down my guitar and sing without my little safety net! Never done this before, and it was fun dancing around the stage and having that complete freedom. Then Breathe .well .I had in my head how it would sound, but it was so much better on the night. As I stood side stage and listened in the pure darkness as this wonderful mini orchestra slowly and beautifully introduced Breathe, I actually had tears rolling down my face. Hearing Sarah on the cello by itself in the silent room, then Mike on the guitar, then Pete on bass, then Almin on drums with that strong heart beat, slowly Jess and Fiona joined in on violins, Pen on the flute, Dave and Lucas on brass, and Maera's powerful voice, Mo's keys, and Arun's percussion with Jean-Guy finally playing on top of it all it was a magical moment. It felt like the stage was lifting as the sound built up. I could've stood there for so much longer just listening, but it was my turn to go on stage, and I loved every moment of it. The build up was beautiful and intense. Easy to get lost in the music. And then of course the finale, Blue with all fourteen players on stage. I was quite worried about not being able to pull it off but we all did, and I don't think any of us were ready to leave the stage! So there you have it a great night. Sold a huge amount of albums which was a great feeling at the end of the night so again, thank you everyone who helped out, performed, came along, danced, smiled, bought the albums and had anything at all to do with the night. So much gratitude to you all! Five hundred and thirty people! Sweet! Whats going on theses days? Well, our time with Almin is coming to an end although he will ALWAYS be a part of the team, and I know he will join us whenever possible. Elliot is returning from South America next week and will be back with us in full force which is also very exciting. I just wanted to say a massive thanks to Almin for the past five months the drumming, the support and the friendship. Its been so much fun, so chilled, and many many laughs. You are a wonderful drummer and I love what we have together on stage you are a champ Mr Fulurija!! And of course a massive welcome home to Elliot we have missed you and your funny one liners! And cant wait to be playing together again! Its about one year now that Pete's been on bass with us and the more I play with him the more I realise what a talented guy he is. Not only can he funk it up, but he can find these perfectly beautiful melodies/riffs at the exact right moments in a song, which I love. Not bad at all. Well, that's really about all that's going on. Gigs, organising upcoming tours, trying to get gigs out of Perth, trying to flog the cd we need all your help with making requests to all radio stations- It only takes a few minutes! We have a new song that I'm enjoying. It's called Missing You its fairly universal in the way that all of us can relate to it in some way or another. Look forward to recording it in the near future. Well, that's about enough computer time for me. Hope to see you all at a gig sometime soon. Thanks again for all the recent support. Much love. Toby
2006: April 5 - Little stressed.Hanging at mum and dads place.
Good place to be. Good company. Good advice. Mostly.
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